At first glance, the question, “Whose voice is
language?,” might seem meaningless. As a
question implicit in the postmodernist critique of distinctions entrenched in
everyday languages and of authority in any shape or form, however, it exposes
the disguises which authority has assumed over the course of centuries, and it
challenges honest searchers to forge a voice which reveals their own moral
centers.
(NB:
A prime example of distinctions entrenched in everyday languages: Male - female. Over the course of centuries, this
distinction was mapped onto prevailing power-structures in ways that
legitimated and perpetuated male domination.
In a broad sense, men who use this language to silence women seek to
perpetuate their privileged roles in a political, economic or religious
structure. By exposing the hollow center
of the distinction, the postmodernist critique demands that anyone who supports
male domination must admit they are making a power-move which does violence to
women and to themselves.
In my use of the postmodernist
critique of authority, the homophobic reaction of so many Christians to
same-sex marriage reveals far more about their deeply rooted fears of sexuality
(and, often, fears concerning their own sexual identity) than about
homosexuality or homosexuals. Their denominations
may ignore the way that their acceptance of divorce undermines a supposedly
natural institution of marriage. But
they hide behind the insistence that marriage is an institution validated by
some natural order. Presumably, they are
thereby absolved of any need to voice vulnerable self-revelations of the
turmoil the issue triggers in them. And
despite the insistence of Israel’s prophets that God’s moral will is heard in
the cries of the oppressed and marginalized, they allow their prejudices to
silence the cries of homosexuals who have suffered excruciating agony at their
hands.
Sadly, many Christians, Catholic and
Protestant, invoke the authority of Scripture to justify their prejudices. In so doing, they endow a patently biased
interpretation of the gospel message with a spurious and even blasphemous
authority.)
A.
Answers to the question that have had significant play in the western
literary tradition:
1.
Language is the voice of reason:
Rationalism has functioned as the dominant strand in the western philosophical
and scientific traditions. For its
god-term, it invokes a literary construct which weds the interrogatory stance
inherent in the interiorization of literacy and a totalizing thrust of a
language governed by the logic of continuous prose. The detachment inherent in its uses of “reason”
promises a god-like perspective on the interplay among language, experience and
reality which is capable of penetrating the flux of experience in ways that
reveal the dynamic interactions among underlying and enduring natural forces.
In ancient Greece, this detachment
first surfaced as a rupture of orality’s illusory sense of immediate presence,
fullness and totality. But once an
interiorized interrogatory stance was wedded with the inner logic of continuous
prose, Plato and Aristotle, in particular, assumed that the use of reason to
generate and govern analyses of everyday languages would yield linguistic
formulations capable of describing (or even presenting transparently) the
workings of reality as a whole. And in
the Modern Era, the literary construct indebted to their reflections promised
to replace orality’s illusory sense with a language which reasonable beings
could use to predict future states of affairs, retrodict the primordial state
which produced the present state of affairs, and enable them to transform
nature into an environment conducive to the fulfillment of one’s wildest
dreams. (NB: This pretense was fostered by the discovery
that well-formulated questions could evoke answers from mute nature which
conferred power over nature.)
Summary: Rationalists believe (1) that analyses of
language and experience generated and governed by reason will ultimately yield
a language consisting of clear and distinct ideas in a consistent, coherent,
comprehensive and closed formal system, (2) that this language will reveal the
whole of reality transparently, in depth and detail, (3) that this language can
be consigned to a bounded text which is self-interpreting (because the language
is consistent, coherent, comprehensive and complete) and self-referential
(since it presents reality transparently).
2.
Language is the voice of a rational and purposive Creator: In his Summa
Theologica, Aquinas wedded reason and revelation in his version of the
medieval metaphor of the Two Books, the Book of Nature and the Judaic-Christian
Scriptures. To resolve issues of
interpretation which threatened the traditional belief that the Scriptures spoke
as the revealed word of God, he presented philosophy (reason) as the handmaid
of theology (faith seeking understanding).
But the structure of the Summa
imposed the rule of reason on his theological inquiries.
First and foremost, the rule of
reason (as the vehicle for the totalizing thrust of a language written in
continuous prose) is evident in the supposition that a text could inscribe
clear and distinct formulations of dogmas woven into a consistent, coherent,
comprehensive and complete belief-system that revealed God’s activity in human
history transparently.
Secondly, Aquinas obviously
believed that his account of the interplay between Aristotelian philosophy and
Tradition would provide definitive interpretations of all passages in the
Scriptures. In this regard, carefully
selected quotations from texts of the Fathers of the Church played a more
prominent role in arguments designed to establish his authority over Tradition
than quotations from the Scriptures.
Thirdly, Aquinas’ account of the
interplay among philosophy, Tradition and the Scriptures can be found in the
argument he derived from the metaphor of the Two Books. That argument can be succinctly stated. God’s creative will can be read off the Book
of Nature by the natural light of reason.
God’s saving will is revealed in the Scriptures. And since there can be no conflict between
God’s creative and saving wills, each Book can be used to guide readings of the
other.
Finally, the rule of reason over
Aquinas’ thought is most evident in the conception of God he invokes to justify
the juridical structure of the natural law theory which Thomists (and Pope
Benedict) try to impose on Catholic moral theology to this day. Succinctly stated, Aquinas’ argument asserts
that, to be true to his own divine nature, a rational and purposive God would
have to create a universe with a teleological structure which would enable
human beings, made in the image of such a God, to read God’s moral will off of
nature by a “natural light of reason.”
By extension, the language generated by this reading was the voice of a
rational and purposive Creator. (On any
count, however, the natural law is not the language of love, since there is no
formula for loving interactions between unique and complicated persons.)
3.
Language is the voice of a just and merciful God who speaks in and
through the Scriptures: Aquinas
situated traditional distinctions between faith and reason, reason and
revelation, faith and works, nature and grace, Scripture and Tradition, and the
sacred and the secular in the interplay of two books, the Book of Nature and
the Scriptures. Consequently, his Summa can be read as an extended
commentary on the traditional belief that grace builds on nature. To voice his protest against a hierarchically
structured institution which presented itself as the guardian of Tradition,
Luther transformed these distinctions into polar oppositions and filled the
hollow center of these polar oppositions with the slogan, sola Scriptura (“Scripture alone”).
As a child of his age, Luther
proposed a metaphor depicting the relationship between the unique individual
and the incomprehensible God without recognizing that the reach of any fruitful
metaphor initially exceeds its grasp. As
the source of a rhetoric designed as a voice of protest, his belief-system
voiced a rejection of both Tradition and the constrictive medieval
belief-system as valid interpretations (readings) of Scripture. In the empty literary space created by the
rejection, it imposed a literal interpretation on the traditional metaphor
which characterized the Scriptures as the word of God. But the problem here is obvious. If true believers grant that even a single
passage in the Scripture requires interpretation, they can no longer insist
that the Scriptures speak as the revealed word of God without ambiguity. Whether they like it or not, they must answer
the question: Who determines which
passages require interpretation and which passages voice God’s word clearly?
Today, Christian fundamentalists who insist on
the inerrancy of the Scriptures and who pretend that they read the Scriptures
literally are the true literary heirs of the commitment encoded in Luther’s
slogan, sola Scriptura. To foster the pretense that the Scriptures
speak as a self-interpreting and self-referential text which contains answers
to all possible questions, they must regard language as the voice of a God who
speaks immediately through the Scriptures.
(See the crazy efforts to legitimate Creationism as an intellectually
respectable alternative to evolution.
From my perspective, a commitment to Scripture alone reveals a
determination to maintain Luther’s doctrine of justification by faith alone at
all costs.)
4.
Language is the voice of thinking beings: To subvert the hold of constrictive medieval
belief-systems, Protestants framed the issue as a dispute between a commitment
to Scripture and Tradition and a commitment to Scripture alone. Descartes invoked the interrogatory stance at
the core of a fictive voice of reason to legitimate his conviction that
medieval belief-systems were edifices erected upon sand. Transformed into a methodical doubt, this
interrogatory stance stripped away “the hold of the dead hand of the past” as thoroughly
as Luther’s rejection of Tradition. And
according to Descartes, all that remained were solipsistic thinking
beings. (According to Descartes’
geometrization of the universe, God wrote the Book of Nature in the language of
mathematics, not the language of Aristotelian metaphysics baptized by
Aquinas. Thereafter, scientific
inquiries were freed from the hold of the hierarchical and teleological
structure of Aristotelian metaphysics.
And with this deconstruction of the foundations of Aquinas’s natural law
theory, there was no longer any reason to believe that reason could provide
analyses of experience which proved the existence of a rational and purposive
Creator.)
5.
Language is the voice of autonomous individuals: Since Kant’s conception of the autonomous
individual functioned as the centerpiece of the myth of Modernity, the
philosophical position which regards language as the voice of such individuals
calls for an extended commentary.
Historically, to avoid being
dragged before the Inquisition, Descartes explicitly refused to explore the
moral implications of the metaphor of individuality generated by his methodical
doubt. Equally explicitly, Kant wanted
to rescue reason as the voice of authority from Hume’s empirical critique of
rationalism. Later, to show that his use
of reason could resolve all moral issues, he offered an analysis of morality
which replaced Descartes’ solipsistic conception of a thinking being with his
own conception of the autonomous individual.
To endow this conception with
moral authority, Kant interwove (1) Plato’s metaphorical depiction of the
tri-partite soul, with its assumption that reason must rule disruptive passions
and desires, (2) the central role played by internal turmoil in Augustine’s Confessions and Luther’s doctrine of
original sin, (3) classical rationalism’s depiction of reason as a
disinterested, dispassionate, god-like perspective on language and experience,
(4) his own rejection of medieval references to
“the natural light of reason,” (5) Descartes’ thesis that thinking
beings face one another across an unbridgeable chasm between subjectivity and
objectivity, (6) Hume’s empirical critique of rationalism, (7) the assumption
of Newtonian mechanics that, though we cannot know what gravity is, idealized
Laws of Motion enable physicists to discover how gravity works and to use that
knowledge to harness the motion of entities to human purposes, (8) Rousseau’s
insistence that human beings are made unique and free by nature, not by God,
and (9) his own use of Hume’s empirical critique to deprive Utilitarianism of
moral authority.
The literary foundations for
Kant’s analysis of morality can be found in his earlier Critique of Pure Reason.
This text introduced a chasm between nature and reason which replaced
the supposition that reason is a natural trait of humans with the recognition
that reason is a construct. To support
its argument that this construct could compel assent and consent to judgments,
he invoked Newtonian physics as the paradigm example of a use of reason
compatible with Hume’s empirical critique of classical rationalism. To introduce categorical imperatives which
functioned in a manner analogous to Newton’s Laws of Motion, he supplemented
the thesis of the Critique of Pure Reason
which depicted `reason’ as a construct designed to bridge the unbridgeable
chasm between experience (subjectivity) and reality (objectivity) with the
promise that this construct provides the only critical apparatus capable of
making sense of experiences resulting from bombardment by constantly changing
stimuli.
In his application of the Critique to moral issues, Kant began
with a radical distinction between descriptive and moral inquiries. In this context, he used Hume’s critique of
rationalism and his own reduction of passion and desire to purely natural
motivations to replace the naturalist fallacy inherent in Aquinas’s argument
that moral laws could be read off the impersonal operation of natural
forces. To formulate this replacement
succinctly, he advanced the dictum, “`Is’ does not imply ‘ought’.” Then, to counter Utilitarianism’s exclusive
focus on the consequences of actions, he posited two maxims. The first, a principle of universalizability,
was designed to show how moral maxims function in a manner analogous to Newton’s
Laws of Motion. Subjected to the
assertion that “is” does not imply “ought,” it served to deprive care and
compassion for individuals of moral authority, since they violated the
impartiality demanded by a detached perspective which reasonable beings could
occupy interchangeably. The second, “Always
treat reasonable beings as ends in themselves, never merely as means,” was
designed to show (1) that actions which used other individuals to gratify one’s
desires, because they were urged by natural motivations, were inherently
immoral, (2) that, in light of Hume’s empirical critique of rationalism, the
Utilitarian focus on consequences could not generate authoritative moral
judgments, and (3) that the resulting critique of Utilitarianism centered moral
issues exclusively in the intention of the agent.
In truly important ways,
therefore, Kant was the first philosopher determined to avoid grounding morality
outside of human reality. His argument
can be succinctly stated. In the modern
world, unique individuals who face moral questions inherent in constantly
changing conditions of life cannot predict or control the long-term
consequences of any course of action or sort out the tangled motivations which
incline them to act in a particular way.
To become free and to act with intellectual integrity, they must learn
how to subject passions and desires to moral ends. The process begins with their awareness of
the inner turmoil so vividly evoked by Augustine’s inner turn and Luther’s
doctrine of original sin and is brought to conclusion when the analysis of this
inner turmoil governed by the two maxims noted above yields the experience
which Kant referred to as a sense of duty (“oughtness”). But I cannot agree
with his conclusion that only actions performed with the intention of doing one’s
duty are moral. And this disagreement signals my critique of his thesis that
the use of these maxims to process the experience of inner turmoil in a way
that centers moral judgments in human reality yields categorical imperatives
(not moral laws or lists of duties or virtues) which autonomous individuals
dictate to themselves.
Since I frame moral discourse
with a metaphor of intimacy rather than a metaphor of power and judgment, I
view Kant’s argument as both a coherent configuration of the theses noted above
and a conceptual quagmire. Taken as a
whole, the configuration endows reason with the power to compel the sort of
assent and consent to judgments which generate categorical imperatives. Presumably, because the analyses which yield
such judgments are rational responses to an internal turmoil provoked by
changing conditions of life, they escape the solipsism inherent in the metaphor
of individuality generated by Descartes’ methodical doubt. But the elimination of passion as a moral
motivation devalues the personal dimensions of involvements between and among
individuals, and this devaluation reveals how thoroughly the conception of the
autonomous individual remains captive to the inner logic of Descartes’
conception of the solipsistic individual.
As an answer to the question, “Whose
voice is language?”, therefore, Kant’s analysis of morality implies that
language is the voice of the autonomous individual.
6.
Language is the voice of the Absolute Spirit: To impose his authority on the western
philosophical tradition, Hegel began with the categorical assertion, “The real
is rational, and the rational is real.” To validate the literary origins of the use of
reason implicit in this dictum, he grounded his secularization of the Christian
doctrine of the Trinity in an ontological argument indebted to Descartes’s
insistence that a mathematical intuition of the infinite revealed that the
infinite was a positive notion rather than the product of the negation of a
conception of the finite abstracted from the experience of finite entities. Presumably, this ontological argument
demonstrated the existence of an Infinite devoid of finite forms. In his hands, it supported an
all-encompassing vision of a course of history generated by an Absolute Spirit
which operated exclusively as a negating force at the center of this otherwise
empty Infinite. From this perspective,
the negation of a formless Infinite generated finite forms, worked within them
to fully realize them, and then moved to negate the limits of any finite form
in ways that generated other finite forms.
The conclusion is obvious: The
process will presumably continue until the Absolute Spirit has filled the empty
Infinite with all possible finite forms, each fully realized, and the language
which incorporates and transmits all these fully realized forms of life is the
Word incarnate. Language, then, voices
the inexorable march of the Absolute Spirit through history.
7.
Language is the voice of an all-pervasive will to power: Nietzsche was determined to establish his
authority over Hegel. Hegel’s identification
of the activity of the Spirit as a negating force implied that the Spirit used
individuals ruthlessly to realize its purposes.
And though Hegel would never have used this term, the result would be an
autonomous text, self-interpreting and self-referential.
To validate his triumph over Hegel,
Nietzsche encoded his critique of rationalism in two distinctive literary
forms, the archeology of knowledge and the genealogy of morals. The archeology of knowledge generated a code
capable of exposing the arbitrariness and pretensions enshrined in the
supposition that reason provides a god-like perspective. The genealogy of morals generated a code
which exposed the ways that the use of reason generated rationalizations
designed to legitimate the claim to authority voiced by the
powers-that-be. In sum, the judgments
they licensed were little more than thinly disguised exercises of a hidden will
to power.
Consequently, though the gurus of
the postmodernist movement pretended to speak from nowhere, their insistence
that no one can escape entirely from the formative power of everyday language
echoes Nietzsche’s conviction that the hermeneutical code derived from the
literary forms he forged revealed the operation of an all-pervasive will to
power in nature and in the western literary tradition. Presumably, this code generated re-readings
of the texts which were kept alive in the transmission of the western literary
tradition which, in the final analysis, revealed that language is the voice of
this all-pervasive will to power.
8.
Language is the voice of Being:
Before their disillusionment with the promises of the myth of Modernity,
continental intellectuals were scornful of the hermeneutical theory which
Nietzsche used to present himself as the prophet who announced the imminent
arrival of supermen who would live beyond good and evil. As a result, his deconstruction of the
literary foundations of traditional metaphysical, epistemological,
methodological and ethical inquiries awaited Heidegger’s determination to wrest
the mantle of prophecy from him.
To lend authority to his
appropriation of Nietzsche’s hermeneutical code, Heidegger addressed the
revolutionary question inherent in Nietzsche’s re-reading of the western
literary tradition: “What does an
understanding of the workings of the western literary tradition reveal?” To answer the question, he adopted the notion
of Being projected by the pre-Socratics as the god-term in a hermeneutical
theory designed to reveal workings of an all-pervasive creative and gracious
Being rather than an all-pervasive will to power.
In the inter-textual dialogue
among the pre-Socratics, Being functioned as a detached perspective on the
workings of a literary language which was taking on a life of its own at a time
when significant distinctions among language, experience and reality had not
yet emerged. In Heidegger’s hands, Being
functioned as the framework for analyses of ways of being human in the modern
world which privileged a participative existence over relationships among
solipsistic or autonomous individuals and replaced methodologies governed by
the rule of reason with an existential stance toward Being.
To frame his analyses of the
workings of language, Heidegger insisted that unique individuals (dasein) are linguistic, not rational,
and passionate, not detached. In short,
if we were not linguistic, we could not learn everyday languages which sort out
experiences and carve up reality in very different ways. And since Heidegger did not share the
fashionable fascination with the promise of an ideal language, he supplemented
Nietzsche’s insistence on the textuality of languages generated by literary
traditions with a metaphor which depicted language as the vehicle for the
revelation of the meaning of Being.
In this context, languages which
had taken on the status of “things-in-themselves” bridged the Cartesian chasm
between subjectivity and objectivity which had such pernicious implications for
the rationalism generated by Descartes’ methodical doubt. And as revelatory vehicles, they replaced
philosophical –isms. In its own right, it clearly replaced rationalism’s
suggestion that language is the voice of solipsistic or autonomous individuals
with the use of Being as the god-term in a hermeneutical theory designed to
expose the workings of the western literary tradition.
Like Hume’s empirical critique of
rationalism, Heidegger’s existentialist critique is simple and direct: Empirical evidence that supports the
awareness that, as we strive to express even the most uniquely personal
visions, insights or cries from the depths, we find ourselves searching for
words. Consequently, we are not masters
of literary languages which have taken on lives of their own or of the
formative power of everyday languages on our thought and aspirations.
In a late essay, Heidegger
supplemented the depiction of language as the vehicle for the revelation of the
meaning of Being with a metaphorical depiction of everyday language as “an
abode in which we dwell suspended over an abyss.” From this perspective, everyday language
effectively bridges the Cartesian chasm over continental rationalism. As the voice of a creative and gracious
Being, however, everyday languages both reveal and conceal. Consequently, analyses of language and
experience must be framed by a hermeneutical code which privileges glimpses of
the workings of an open-ended process over rationalizations which, by imposing
closure on questioning, pretend to offer authoritative interpretations of texts
and analyses of experience.
9.
Language is the voice of a hermeneutics of suspicion: Neither Nietzsche nor Heidegger escaped
entirely from the rule of reason. Both
filled the hollow center of their hermeneutical theories with god-terms (the
will to power and Being), and both were determined to assert authority over
past, present and future readings (interpretations) of the intertextual
dialogue which constitutes the western literary tradition.
In the middle of the twentieth
century, an originally amorphous movement now referred to as postmodernism took
Nietzsche’s and Heidegger’s readings of the western literary tradition one step
farther, Its adherents agreed with
Nietzsche’s exposure of the workings of a will to power in any claim to speak
with authority, but were horrified by Nietzsche’s fascination with
violence. Many took the Holocaust as an
unspeakable obscenity which revealed that both the myth of Modernity and
Heidegger’s call for open responsiveness were unable to produce what they
promised.
As the movement evolved, it
coalesced around a hermeneutics designed to subvert authority in any shape or
form. Certain contenders for the mantle
of authority were easily targeted:
(1) The supposition that reason
spoke with authority because its god-like perspective on the interplay among
language, experience and reality was capable of liberating individuals from the
formative power of everyday language;
(2) Rationalism’s promise of an
ideal language which, because it presented reality transparently, could be
inscribed in a self-interpreting and self-referential (autonomous) text; (3)
The myth of Modernity, with its promise that autonomous individuals
could create their own unique identities, co-author an ideal society, harness
nature to their purposes, and thereby become lords of history and arbiters of
their own destinies; and (4) The promise
that a hermeneutical theory or a theory of literary criticism could yield a
definitive interpretation of a text.
To expose (deconstruct) the
literary foundations of these positions, the gurus of the movement appropriated
critical apparati indebted to the resurfacing of the interrogatory stance at
the core of reason whenever the rule of the totalizing thrust of language
became oppressive. In their desire to
avoid becoming merely another -ism, they wove these critical apparati into a
hermeneutics designed to subvert authority without re-inscribing authority in
their own texts and utterances. To that
end, the hermeneutics of suspicion personifies (1) the interiorization of
literacy as an interrogatory stance which licenses endless question, (2) Descartes’
methodical doubt, but without the myth of pure beginnings it generated, (3)
strategies for reading texts, cultures and textured experiences derived from
the literary forms forged by Nietzsche, the archeology of knowledge and the
genealogy of morals, (4) the elimination of metaphors of individuality encoded
in Heidegger’s dasein, (5) Derrida’s strategy of putting god-terms “under
erasure” as a means to evoke a creative tension between the discourse generated
by the rule of any god-term and suspicion of its promises, (6) the use of this
strategy to replace the role played by “bracketing” in Husserl’s
phenomenological method for analyzing data of consciousness with a focus on
discourse rather than consciousness, and (7) a code designed to expose the
arbitrariness of distinctions, rupture the continuity promised by the logic of
continuous prose, and transgress boundaries of any sort.
In sum, the suspicion embraced by
postmodernist critics encodes a critical apparatus which subverts any and all
efforts to fill the hollow center of interiorized interrogatory stance with a
god-term. As a result, this code
authorizes readings without re-inscribing authority in them. As a by-product, however, it denies a voice to
a longing for deepening person-to-person involvement which generated a distinctive
literary code, the prose narrative, which enables individuals to learn how to
speak in their own voices. To bolster
that denial, it supplements the exposure of the impossibility of a god-like
perspective on language, experience and reality with the charge that everyday
language is a repository of violence.
Sadly, though the postmodernist
depiction of human existence echoes the metaphors of Israel’s great prophets
which locate morality in the cries of the oppressed, marginalized, silenced and
outcast in any society, those who pretend that a hermeneutics of suspicion
enables them to speak anonymously can only speak in a hollow voice of prophetic
protest.
10.
Language is the voice of the longing for a fully human and uniquely
personal existence and for intimate involvements with loved ones: Many philosophers and theologians ignore the
challenge inherent in the postmodernist hermeneutics of suspicion rather than
address its charge that they endow the god-term they espouse with authority in
ways which inscribe and rationalize a hidden will to power. On my part, I welcome Derrida’s call to put
these god-terms “under erasure,” since it recognizes that forms of life and
distinctive moral discourses generated by the metaphor of power and judgment
are full of both promise and peril. On
the one hand, they have contributed to the quest for a fully human and uniquely
personal existence. On the other, when
they are used to legitimate moral judgments, they sow seeds of violence.
In this context, my answer to the question, “Whose
voice is language?”, is indebted to the form of life generated by the metaphor
of intimacy. This form of life encodes a
language capable of processing person-to-person interactions in ways that
transform a longing for deepening intimacy into a realizable quest. But its promise that passionate, vulnerable,
respectful and faithful interactions will foster trust stands in polar
opposition to a postmodernist celebration of suspicion (and irony). (The fidelity which fosters trust is
essential in an involvement in which vulnerable self-revelations are the only
sort of interactions which yield deepening person-to-person involvements.)
An analysis of the workings of
this form of life reveals that a committed quest for intimacy is the only way
to fulfill the longing for a fully human and uniquely personal existence and
the longing for intimacy. The dynamics
can be succinctly sketched. Genuinely
person-to-person involvements plunge us into a journey into the unknown. As the involvement deepens, interactions tap
buried tangles created by a pervasive process of socialization and events in
our personal histories. At this time,
couples who committed themselves to a shared journey into the unknown discover
that they married a stranger and that they are strangers to themselves. Implicitly, they realize that they do not
know how to speak in their own voices.
But an involvement which calls for vulnerable self-revelations is a
constant invitation to sort out the tangles and place them respectfully and
faithfully in each other’s care. And in
and through such self-revelations, both begin to be able to speak honestly in
their own voices, and both learn how to co-author the story of their shared
journey into the unknown.
Since ethical analysis is designed to show how a purpose is realizable,
there is an ethics of intimacy. This
ethics analyses experiences of those who commit themselves to the quest for
intimacy. And this analysis reveals that
passionate, vulnerable, respectful and faithful interactions are the only path
to deepening person-to-person involvements and that any recourse to exercises
of power or judgment aborts or distorts the quest. In Kant’s terms, this
analysis supports a hypothetical rather than a categorical imperative. I.e., if you want to be intimately involved,
you must listen to the call for passionate, vulnerable, respectful and faithful
interactions, and you must avoid disguised recourse to judgment and power. But any pretense that an individual is
compelled to seek intimacy violates the call for vulnerability and respect.
As the bottom line, therefore, the
language of intimacy can evoke the longing and show how to transform the
longing into a realizable quest. But the
calls it voices do not pretend to speak with authority, since they can only
speak for themselves.
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